Marriage

Marriage

First Marriages

For those entering into their first marriages (civilly or religiously), marriage preparation is an exploration of what marriage means, how to learn and love as a couple, and planning for the wedding.

Convalidations

For those already married civilly, the Catholic Church will recognize the marriage, provided all necessary paperwork is completed, couples attend pre-sacramental marriage counseling with the clergy, and previous marriages are non-existent or annulled. Convalidations can be done as a private or public ceremony.

Previous Marriages

Those with previous marriages (civilly and religiously), are still invited to be full members of the Catholic Church and participate as much as possible in Parish life. Remarrying will require extra steps in order to learn from one's previous marriages, prove that the marriage can be annulled on grounds provided by canon law, and complete pre-sacramental marriage counseling with the clergy. Please note that annulments usually take a minimum of 6 months and a favorable decision is not guaranteed.

Marriage Blessing

A blessing is a good word spoken to us by God. For those celebrating an anniversary, unable to receive a sacramental marriage at this time, or are at an impasse due to irregular situations, you may request a blessing from the priest. Note that this is not a sacrament of the Catholic Church and at certain times, not a public ceremony. 

Marriage Policy


Never set a date for a wedding until meeting with a clergy member in order to establish the freedom to marry in the Catholic Church.


Documents
  1. Updated Baptismal Records for each Catholic (non-Catholics should try to produce documentation of baptism if possible)
  2. Tribunal Annulment documents from any previous marriages of both parties
  3. A copy of the Civil Marriage if already taken place
  4. An unvalidated Civil Marriage License immediately prior to the wedding


Meetings
  1. Initial paperwork with Clergy
  2. A pre-marriage questionnaire
  3. A Diocesan Pre-Cana Workshop
  4. Marriage Counseling with Clergy
  5. Planning the Ceremony with Clergy, Music Director, and/or Wedding Coordinator
Wedding Scripture Reading Options

Consultation

If you are preparing for marriage, unsure about your current marital status according to the Catholic Church, or need guidance on possible ways forward, please schedule a meeting with our pastor. He will be glad to meet with you and explore your options together.

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